Good coaches have coaches. In fact, when I train and certify coaches, I require that the candidate be working with a coach.
For the last eighteen years, I have relied on my own coach. Because like every other human being, I have the capacity to doubt, to falter, to feel overwhelmed, to get down, or to get in my own way. My coach is a wise guide, a mentor, and a mirror.
I cannot imagine not having her in my life. Especially now.
We live in an age of distortion. Every day, it feels harder to know what to trust, who to trust, or where to turn. Technology has given us more data, more opinions, more voices, but it hasn’t given us clarity. Often it feels as if we are surrounded by reflections and distortions, unsure of what is real.
In times like these, a wise guide becomes indispensable. Someone grounded. Someone steady. Someone who can help us navigate the noise, filter the chaos, and keep moving toward what matters most.
There’s an old African proverb: If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together. The truth is that none of us can see our blind spots by ourselves. None of us succeed entirely on our own.
It’s axiomatic in sports and entertainment. The top athletes have coaches, often several. The great performers rely on mentors, teachers, and directors. People at the very top of their games know that excellence is not a solo pursuit. It’s a product of guidance, feedback, and accountability.
The same is true in business and in life. Yet too often, people think of coaching as a commodity. A quick fix. A short-term solution to a pressing problem. But that misses the point. Coaching at its best is not transactional. It’s transformational.
It is a relationship built on trust. A place where you can tell the truth without judgment. A partnership that grounds you, challenges you, and helps you see a bigger vision for your life and work.
In my own journey, my coach has been that steady presence. A voice of reason when the world felt overwhelming. A mirror when I couldn’t see clearly. A guide who helped me discover deeper strength and new possibilities.
Now more than ever, in a world of uncertainty and noise, we need that kind of relationship. We need wise guides who can help us not just survive, but thrive.
If you’ve ever wondered whether the time might be right for you to have a coach, perhaps this is your moment. A simple conversation can open a door.
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