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¿ Donde
We wandered in the fog. For days.
A storm had enveloped the lower part of the mountain right after we had landed at base camp. We had heard that the weather was “nice” up above. So in order to push forward toward Denali’s summit without jeopardizing our supplies of food and fuel, we had decided to traverse the mighty Kahiltna Glacier despite the lack of visibility.
We navigated from wand to wand; and from way point to way point.
At times, I could barely see Ann on the rope 60′ in front of me.
Happily we knew exactly where we were going.
Which was a good thing.
Knowing where you want to go is essential in the mountains.
It’s essential, too, in business… and in life.
Unfortunately, all too often, we lose our direction. We lose sight of the path. We don’t know exactly where we want to end up.
Clarity is key we tell our coaching clients.
You must know your target.
You must be clear on what you want your outcome to be.
You wouldn’t likely wander over to the airport today, saunter up to the ticket counter and say, “Gimme a ticket.”
The ticket agent would look at you a bit strangely and then ask, “Where to?”
If you said, “Barcelona, Orlando or San Francisco,” the agent would likely then query, “Which one?”
Too often we make the mistake in our businesses (and our lives) of not knowing “which one.”
- Who is your ideal client or customer?
- What is the product or service that yields your highest return?
- What do you want your numbers to be this year?
- Exactly how many hours do you want to work?
- What are your specific goals?
- What is essential to your success and satisfaction?
A GPS will get you within 30′ of your destination. If you go off track, it tells you so.
“Recalculating.”
Always with the destination locked in place.
But without that destination locked in place, you can wander down blind alleys, into “bad” neighborhoods; and you can get pretty far off course: Distracted by the latest in marketing, the hottest of hardware, the coolest of apps; doing advertising regardless of outcome, chasing clients regardless of worth.
Doing things that look “busy” but don’t really get you to where you really want to go.
And you’re ineffective as a leader because, seriously, who wants to follow someone who looks lost?
I love climbing is South America. The Andes are one of my favorite ranges. Unfortunately my Spanish isn’t very good.
The one word I do know is: ¿Donde
Where.
It’s a pretty important one to know.
I Love Shiny Toys
I’m sitting on a leadership panel this week at the 2014 Connecticut Business Expo. One of the first questions we’ll consider is: “What are the greatest challenges that business leaders face today, especially as they seek to grow?”
There are, as you might surmise, many challenges. But one of the biggest is what I refer to as the Shiny Toy Syndrome.
Now, we all love shiny toys. I know I do. But chasing after shiny toys in the world of business can be a recipe for disaster.
Shiny toys come in many forms:
- The latest and greatest in SEM, SEO, PPC, and LinkedIn advertising
- The hottest in websites and social media platforms
- The newest in marketing blitzes
- Bigger, better, smaller, different products and what’s ‘really cutting edge’ in R & D
- The jazziest in hardware, software, underwear (just checking in to see if you’re still with me), iPhones, Droids and tablets
- Emerging markets, foreign markets, global markets, different markets
You see, the greatest crisis of our age is not that we don’t have enough. It’s that we have too much: too much information; too much noise; too much stimulation; too much to do.
There are simply too many things that distract us; too much that pulls at our attention; too many endless possibilities that take us away from the “main thing.” And as Stephen Covey so brilliantly said it: “The main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.”
Every business leader we coach or consult with feels overwhelmed by the amount of information that’s coming at him or her. It is tempting, indeed, to engage in what Jim Collins refers to as “the undisciplined pursuit of more.”
“Be so good they can’t ignore you,” Steve Martin once said.
But it’s tough to be that good when you’re constantly pulled and distracted.
“People think focus means saying yes to the thing you’ve got to focus on,” Steve Jobs said. “But that’s not what it means at all. It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that there are. You have to pick carefully. I’m actually as proud of the things we haven’t done as the things I have done. Innovation is saying no to 1,000 things.”
In the end, business isn’t really that complicated. It’s about
- Relationships
- Products and services that delight and uplift
- Communication
- A servant’s heart
- Integrity and care
Successful business leaders know the power of focusing on the few essential things that will lead to exponential growth. And they have the courage to walk away from all the rest. Even when the toys are shiny.
What Are You Selling… Really?
“We’d like to buy you all dessert,” the waitress chirped.
We were entertaining two other couples at a lovely restaurant called Barcelona. The dinner had been flawless: wonderful wines, great food, superb service.
I cocked my head and squinted. “Why?”
“Well, my manager said you were in here 6 months ago and had a bad experience. We want to do this for you.”
In truth, we did have a bad experience; a horrible experience. A manager I had never seen before was there; and the serving staff was clearly the “B” team. Everything – absolutely everything – had been off.
But the manager had made it right… he had done all of the ‘correct’ things… he apologized profusely. He ‘comped’ most of the food. He couldn’t have done more. And, in fact, we had returned to this restaurant many, many times in the intervening months with nothing but wonderful experiences.
I graciously accepted the waitress’ kind offer. Then I looked across the room to catch the eye of this manager, who I hadn’t seen since that fateful night. I motioned him over to the table.
I thanked him… and then told him that I was curious about his reasoning… I do a lot of leadership training; I consult on the creation of corporate culture. What prompted him to make this offer… especially after he had gone out of his way to satisfy us so many months ago?
“We’re not interested in one-offs,” the manager said. “We don’t target the occasional customer. Our mission is to create customers for life.”
Wow. How’s that for a mission statement?
The husband-wife team of Jim and Maria Kennedy run Atlantic Sea Kayaking, the premier adventure kayaking and walking-tour company in Ireland. Over a glass of wine one night, I asked Jim about his company’s culture… about his mission.
“If our customers don’t go away from our trips saying that they had the best experience of their lives, Maria and I think that we have failed.”
OMG. That sounded like an audacious mission. Until I looked at the Kennedy’s trip reviews and mentions in places like the Wall Street Journal. They deliver on their promise.
Tony Hsieh of Zappos fame is passionate about his business. But it’s never been about selling shoes. Hsieh is legendary for his company’s customer service. And the title of his book states his core mission: Delivering Happiness.
When Hsieh started his company, he felt so strongly about this mission – and about the culture he wanted to create – that he offered to pay his new hires to quit after they had completed their training period. He wanted to suffuse his company and surround himself only with people who were passionate about what he was really selling.
Whether accountants, lawyers, consultants, financial advisors, coaches, health care professionals, mechanics, artists or parents; whether in food service, kayaking or shoes; we are all in sales. And whether you’re selling a widget or a product, a service or an idea, it is virtually impossible to differentiate yourself from the competition. You get lost in the noise of the marketplace. Everyone’s got something similar; and you can never compete on price.
When all you’re selling is the ‘thing,’ you’ll never break out from the pack. But when you delight; when you create an amazing experience for your customers and clients, they will remember you… for life.
What is it that you are (really) selling?
Rearranging The Deck Chairs
My youngest son turned 21 this past week.
When he was 14, I took him on a Disney cruise. One night, he decided that he was going to “rearrange” all of the deck chairs and move them onto the elevators. This apparent misuse of time and resources seemed to amuse him. It amused Philip, the smartly dressed security officer who knocked at my cabin door at 2:00 a.m., much less.
All of us, though, can fall victim to “rearranging the deck chairs.”
This phrase originated in the stories surrounding the sinking of the Titanic. It means “to do something pointless or insignificant that will soon be overtaken by events, or that contributes nothing to the solution of a current problem.”
It appears in various guises. Here’s how we hear it from some of our coaching clients:
- I’m going to get to making those sales calls as soon as I alphabetize the list.
- I’m going to start the business as soon as I get the logo designed.
- I’m going to launch the program as soon as the website is done.
- I’ll get out to those networking events right after the business cards come.
- I’ll get to work as soon as I finish the (next) degree, program, seminar, certification.
This stuff looks important; it sounds “necessary.”
But, in reality, it’s hiding behind the appearance of busy.
It’s doing stuff that puts off what really needs to be done.
Sure businesses need infrastructure; and I’m a huge believer in continuing personal and professional development.
But what’s most important is getting out into the world and serving; launching that product; using the idea; doing the work; sharing the gifts and talents in the ways that only you can do.
Of course, “things” get in the way like our
- generalized overwhelm
- fear of failure
- fear of success
- fear of what “others” will think
- lack of clarity
- inertia and resistance
Creatives and intellectuals love to fall in love with their ideas; they like to engage in constant thought, reflection, and improvement. Entrepreneurs want excellence. And there is no question that in certain areas of life we need high levels of training, certification and a demand for perfection, like in air traffic control and brain surgery.
But for most of us, we just need to do the work; show up every day and do the work.
The real work. Not the busy work.
For most of us, it’s better done than perfect.
Seth Godin suggests that all the kvetching is pointless unless we get our work out into the world, unless we “ship” what we have to offer.
You can rearrange the deck chairs. But the boat will go down.
Jumbo Shrimp
I unintentionally stirred a shit-storm last week with my newsletter.
I recommended that everyone take a vacation this summer; that vacations are essential to our well-being.
This, apparently, is controversial.
Taking vacations, so the criticism went, suggests that you are not a team player. It might even mean that you’re weak. If your boss tells you not to take them, then you can’t.
I get it. I worked in that culture. I coach a lot of folks who work in that culture.
It’s not a sustainable culture.
We are not machines. We cannot be ‘on’ 24/7/365. It’s just not possible.
The studies are clear and the science backs it up: In cultures that promote a ‘machine’ model, stress is high, turnover is high, the error rate is high (this, of course, finally gets the attention of the professional firms I work with), employee engagement is low, productivity suffers, and job satisfaction is in the toilet.
The testosterone laden, muscle-drive, brute force thing can get us through emergencies and the rare episodic project that has a real (not imagined or manipulated) deadline. All of us have to endure these episodes from time to time. But these are exceptions in a culture of wellness, in a corporate culture that truly values its people. And they exist! They really do! I had the great privilege of doing a series of wellness workshops for a number of accounting firm in the middle of tax season! Talk about evolved cultures!
In order to have work and lives we love, we need to rest and recover. We need vacations!
This was a hard-learned lesson for me. When I worked in The Big Firm, I was told at orientation that we needed to bill 2000+ hours a year; and that we got three weeks of vacation… but that no one ever took them. And as an endurance athlete, I believed that the best way to train (and work!) was, in fact, to keep on going.
Of course, societally, this is exactly what we’re taught: That in order to succeed, we need to work longer, harder faster.
But then I discovered, through my mountaineering and as a distance runner, that rest and recovery is actually an integral part of the equation. That we get stronger when we rest and recover. That we can go longer, harder faster… when we have rested and recovered.
That we’re more focused, attentive, engaged and productive when we’ve rested and recovered.
The same is true in our careers.
Last year there were more than 500,000,000 (that’s 5 hundred million) unused paid vacations days left on the table by American workers. That’s screwed up. I took 12 weeks of vacation last year and enjoyed every single one of them… and then was able to bring a focus and vibrancy to our business and the people we serve in a way that would not have been possible without that time away. (If you’re going to leave some days on the table this year, send them over to me… I’ll be happy to use them. But I’d prefer if you’d take them for yourself.)
I got asked at a workshop this past week how you make this happen for yourself in a culture that doesn’t support it (this from a woman whose husband works in the brokerage industry). This is a very tough question with no easy answer… we want our jobs, we need our jobs, we want to be perceived to be ‘on the team.’ It feels horribly risky to break from the pack. (And sometimes it is.) But, at the same time, if we’re truly going to be responsible for ourselves and for those we love… and if we are going to be leaders, regardless of our job title, or position, we have an obligation to advocate for ourselves… and for those around us.
If you are leader or manager reading this piece, I urge you: Deep dive into the research, evaluate your culture and study the impact. The managers and leaders who see their people late at night or on a Saturday morning and take them aside to coach them on being better stewards of their time: These are the companies that will lead; these are the companies that will thrive.
I know it seems paradoxical. But less really is more.
Hopefully it’s one of those paradoxes that maybe, just maybe, we might learn to live with… kinda like jumbo shrimp.
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